Like for the life of us we can’t pinpoint it haha. We were best friends and one day he says he’s in love with me. Then tells me umm I will be actively pursuing Candy you. He surprised me with 100 roses for my bday…the rest is history lol. Fast forward to the engagement…He told me he’d be planning v-day plans.

There is no doubt that moonlightstar’s bf is attached to her and has feelings for her. It’s not complicated, he would lock you down if he wanted, OP. That he hasn’t is absolutely no reflection on your worth as a woman, person…none. You did the right thing and waited for him to finish medical school…. You have a daughter or single men will say « Baggage » that drops your SMV and +5yrs waiting has not helped. He has increased his value by finishing med school and well on his way to being a doctor.

They now have two kids, a beautiful new home they just built, and they are enjoying the summer as a family at their cottage…. First up, I want to say that I understand how you feel. I bet you feel like you’re in a whole lot of limbo. Not saying @Caauugis right, but just pointing out that women tend to value achievements / career success more than men do, so while his value as a mate goes up, hers probably doesn’t change much. She has a Masters degree in public health & is in the process of applying to medical school herself!

In Case You’re Lost:

I do want to marry him but I don’t understand what the waiting is for when we are both out of school and both expressing wanting children in marriage. He did say « when the time is right I will ask for your dad’s hand in marriage » which is nice to hear, but he can’t be the only one who decides when the time is right. I also feel that he pushes the timeline every time we have a disagreement, because almost every time he says « we have things to work on ». He’s said that for 2 years and I don’t think it’s fair to me. Or maybe not but at the time it felt sincere. So for you i can’t say he was stringing you along.

Women is the end all and be all of why they still are not married. It honestly is your fault that you are still not married. And I really don’t think you will, if you keep coming back to him without giving you what you want – marriage. If marriage is the end game here I wouldn’t invest 5 years into a person. I think after about a year, maybe year and half you know a person well enough.

Things to Consider Before Marriage

Be relevant – When you tweet, make sure that your tweets are relevant to the person you’re following and to the topic of the conversation. This will help them stay informed and engaged, which will in turn increase the chances of them following you back. If you plus your partner are both ok with having a longstanding relationship that never finishes in marriage, maybe you will be flawlessly happy if he will not marry you. He avoids chatting about commitment and tells him he is passing happy time and does not want to ruin this. When someone tells you this is a red flag, and he will never be committed to you. A recent study by the Canadian Bar Association has shown that a common-law marriage suit could alter Canadian law.

Do you really want to delete your profile?

They are notorious for wanting to put off the actual engagement part until later. My significant other and I have been together for nearly 8 years total, almost 4 of those being adults out of school. He is my everything, we would die for each other, he sacrifices everything for us, takes housework upon himself without asking,…

When you have acknowledged that his unwillingness to get married has to do with his problems and not with you, it is time to choose what you would do next. A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. After being lost in my thoughts for so long, they gave me a unique insight into the dynamics of my relationship and how to get it back on track. It’s possible that they just agreed to your terms because they felt pressured.

And the funny thing is, is that, this is kinda wierd, but it’s like, it’s like you almost miss that pain. Entering into a marriage as a way to change a relationship often leads to disillusionment and disappointment. Research shows that dating 3 or more years decreases the likelihood of divorce to about 50 percent lower at any time point.

I don’t say that to be harsh, it’s just the truth. And most of all, marriage does not mean your man will never leave you. When that’s the case, it can feel as if you want your « life to go further, but you feel as though might be holding you back, » Davis says. Relationships naturally move past a honeymoon phase, where you’re both head-over-heels and can’t get enough of each other, and into a slower and more predictable stage.



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